Category: Dating & Relationships
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Why they don’t want a relationship with you
I have heard quite a few people complaining about being friend-zoned, not being “wanted” or, put in a situationship when they want something more, a proper shot to being actually dated. Listen, I hear you, I won’t say it’s not your fault, let’s say it is and figure it out from there. What if you’re…
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Abortion, Morning Afters, Condoms and No filters
Babies! Sweet souls who take up 80% of your attention and life. Probably the most expensive beings on earth after broke girlfriends and boyfriends . And it’s all worth it. Right? Sometimes. I guess it all boils down to choices, circumstances and who you ask. Just don’t ask men too much, what do they know…
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Stop forcing things, Umdala.
Stop forcing things, umdala ! Happiness is not tied to a person so why force things that could potentially ruin your peace. Relationships shouldn’t feel like a war zone every time. They shouldn’t make you blind to reality either. There’s no point in watering a dead plant. ( Well unless if you believe you’d fall…
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Dating in Zimbabwe, The truth
Dating in Zimbabwe is a lot like dating in any other country. You meet someone, you get to know them, you like them, and then you decide if they’re worth the time and effort it takes to pursue a relationship. ( Add in extra steps : What you bring to the table, Whose table it…
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Being yourself in a relationship, Drama free life
A person who has no life will make the relationship their life and that will drain your life. That’s just one scenario, an extreme one for that matter. So, you’re in love ? Your partner is your everything and so you compromise so much to make it work, or everything is actually just perfect. Now,…
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Physical appearances, Insecurities and Body shaming
Hold my cup, ( Don’t spill my Black Label) I recently attended a meeting of creatives that liberated my most raw self. Living up to the this blog’s tag line :’Raw, unfiltered and unapologetic’. I have been silent about double standards in how we view bodies and the weird way we judge people for their…
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Maybe you’re the problem
Have you ever considered the possibility that maybe, just maybe they’re right for once and you’re the problem ? I’ve listened to people’s rants, relationship issues and after hearing both sides got the feeling that their partners could be on the clear. Can you relate?. Fights erupt, relationships fail, bad blood forms and the constant…
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Signs He has lost interest in you
Ah, The One That Got Away. Or the one on his way out. You think you know everything about him—his favorite color, his favorite food, his favorite genre of movies—but it’s only when you realize he doesn’t love you anymore that you realize you never really knew. Communication dies Communication is an important component of…
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Going through your partner’s phone
I think going through each other’s phones can be a little toxic, why be with someone if you can’t trust them? That’s my stance before we go anywhere. But then again, I saw something interesting, “Go through their phone so you know you’re not wasting your time”. In any case, these are my thoughts on…
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Their Male bestfriend- Discussion
The holy grail of topics, well after cheating and gossip topics of course. How do you keep your cool and security intact in a scenario where her bestfriend is a guy ? Jealousy and insecurity are very unattractive and cancerous but how on earth do you keep those in check when Bestie is there ?…
Mind Of A Boyfriend 